Stereotypes

Image via Wikipedia      I was reading someones blog the other day in which they sounded disappointed. You see, the woman had just had her first Black guy and was shocked to find out that he didn't throw her around and rough her up, like she figured all Black men did when they had sex with White women.
     Now, here's a little secret that I'm not sure has gotten out so I'll spill the state secret now. Here it is. Are you ready? Not all Black people are the same, including in bed! I know, shocking. I mean, I see the way we're portrayed in the media and especially in porn. We're animals. We're beasts (I've been called that; despite my clean cut, non Ebonics speaking). We're aggressive, especially in bed. We all have huge cocks.
    Look, I'm not going to lie. I have a big cock. Hell, check some of the other posts. I put it out there enough. We fully hard and ready, it's 8 inches long and 2 inches thick. I love having one and I make the most of it. However, a lot of Black cocks are average. I know, another shock.
     And while I've done my fair share of aggressive sex (as documented numerous times on this blog), I've also done my fair share of tender love making. Hell, I've even released control on a lot of occasions and have even been penetrated with a strap-on more than once (all documented here on this blog).
     The fact of the matter is that Black guys are just like any other group. We're not monolithic. We're not all aggressive beasts with huge cocks who practically rape White women in bed. Most of us are tender and treat our women with respect and dignity and (despite the media image) make good fathers, don't have 5 kids with 5 different women, have never been in jail, have jobs that require more than flipping burgers (no offense to people who do flip burgers), aren't poor, have never been in a gang, are educated, and like more than just rap music.
     People need to stop with the bullshit stereotypes. Oh and to the person who wrote about her disappointment with her first Black man (who I'm pretty sure reads my blog), I'm sorry the guy treated you like a normal human being. Get over it!
*UPDATE: Just for the record, the blog I was refering to is by someone down in Florida. That's all I'm going to say about that blog. I've already put her on blast enough. Whoever the guy is who she slept with, I feel very bad for him. No, it wasn't me. I live in New York.